50 things you should probably know.

Life is hard enough already, I have learnt you have to be realistic to survive and avoid heartbreaks (especially if you have a fragile heart)…… 50 things I have learnt, both the hard way and the easy way,personally and from afar.


I've learnt that broken trust can be fixed but like a broken mirror, you can still see the cracks.
I‘ve learnt that shit really happens ,get over it!
I’ve learnt that if life doesn’t screw with you today, relax! There is still tomorrow.
I've learnt that it's not what you have in your life, but who you have in your life that counts.
I've learnt that you can get by on looks and charm for about 30 minutes. After that, you'd better know something!
I‘ve learnt that being humble doesn’t work as well as being aware.
I‘ve learnt that money really can solve most problems.
I’ve learnt that money can’t solve the most important problems.
I've learnt that you shouldn't compare yourself to the best others can do, but to the best you can do, fingers aren’t equal after all.
I've learnt that it's not what happens to people that's important. It's how they react to it that makes them extra ordinary.
I've learnt that no matter how thin you slice plantain, there are always two sides.
I've learnt that no matter how hard you try you cannot make someone love you. All you can really do is love yourselves first and be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.
I've learnt that there are some people who would just never care about you, if you like break down in front of them (onpe!)
I've learnt that it takes a long time to become who you really want to be, Rome really wasn’t built overnight.
I have learnt that lying to yourself is one of the easiest thing to do.
I have learnt that greed can be a good motivation.
I've learnt that love/relationship isn't all that it's cracked up to be, shit ain't like it is in the movies.
I've learnt that you can keep going long after you think you can't, don’t be limited by your mind.
I've learnt that we are responsible for what we do, no matter what happened.
I've learnt that either you control your attitude or it controls you.
I've learnt that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place. (Amen to that!)
I've learnt that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences. (Jack Bauer)
I've learnt that learning to forgive is hard but it takes practice.
I've learnt that there are people who love you dearly, but just don't know how to show it.
I've learnt that money is a lousy way of keeping score. (it is a way tho!)
I've learnt that my best friend and I can sit around and do nothing and still have the best time.
I've learnt that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down will be the ones to help you get back up.
I've learnt that I'm getting more and more like my mother, and I'm kind of happy/sad about it.
I've learnt that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to take it out on people.
I've learnt that true friendship and true love continues to grow, even over the longest distance.
I've learnt that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have, you have to learn to recognise.
I've learnt that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.
I've learnt that you should never tell someone their dreams are unlikely or absurd.
I've learnt that your family won't always be there for you. It may seem funny but families aren't biological.
I've learnt that no matter how good a friend someone is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.
I've learnt that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.it doesn’t.
I've learnt that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.
I've learnt that sometimes when my parents or friends fight, I'm forced to choose sides even when I don't want to.
I've learnt that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other. And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.
I've learnt that sometimes you have to put the individual ahead of their actions. We are who we are.
I've learnt that we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.
I've learnt that if you don't want to forget something, stick it in your underwear bag, I promise you won’t forget.
I've learnt that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.
I've learnt that there are many ways of falling and staying in love. You just have to explore.
I've learnt that, those who are honest with themselves get farther in life.
I've learnt that no matter how many friends you have, if you are their pillar, you will feel lonely and lost at the times you need them most.
I've learnt that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.
I've learnt that writing, takes a load off.
I've learnt that the people you care most about in life are taken from you too soon, appreciate them now.
I’ve learnt that eventually we all would die alone.

And there is a lot more...wheeeeww!!!