'I am Stuck'; the lie we tell ourselves.



Happy New Month everyone. It's my month so I am super excited (it is not like I am expecting cash) but at the same time I am sort of depressed. It just dawned on me that June is over and very soon the year would be over. Thinking about it sef!...At the beginning of the year I can remember I had resolutions(we all have them) ,I was like 'Omo! this year would be different ' and I actually believed it. But guess what?!,every thing is still the same, I still haven't done anything concerning my passion, I am still very skinny(starting to accept that), I still need a lot of money e.t.c. Sooner than I think, 2015 would just show up( Time flies,Literally!) . And the crazy part is that sometimes I really don't know what to do. I am Stuck!

A friend asked me not too long ago 'What are you doing to attain your set goals (pursuing my dream job)?' and I gave him my favourite reply,i said there is really nothing to do /i don't know what to do A.k.a 'I am stuck' but I realise that is the phrase we use to console ourselves, that is how we lie to ourselves that we have done all that we could and there are really no other option left. To us it is far better than 'I can't '. But that phrase is worse than all others, it makes us 'comfortable' with our lack of drive.

I know there a whole lot I can, and there is a lot I should be doing but It is like I am okay with being stuck. Why?

I know people would question my discipline and willpower but there is more to it;Psychological Reasons. I personally believe that if you feel like you really deserve something you would go after, if you think you are worthy of what you want,you would fight tooth and nails to get it,you wouldn't shy away from the possibility. You would set yourself up to win instead of saying 'eventually' it would come to me.
 According to Charles Coggs "The small decisions and effort we make today is our greatest catalyst for progress tomorrow ". I don't know if it is going to be easy to change but one thing that is certain is 'eventually ' wouldn't come if I don't leave my house,if I don't take risks.

I want good things, I want better things, I want the absolute best for myself, I am sure you want the same for yourselves and saying 'I am Stuck' is one of the lamest and laziest excuse that you and I can't afford because right now determines everything...I know we can do it!
At the end of the day,all we want to see is progress. To make sure that when 2015 comes I am still not telling that particular friend 'I don't really know what I should be doing '.

Progress is good even if it comes in baby steps..Do Something!

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