Baby?, are we ready yet?!


So I was with my girlfriend and her new baby a while ago (she is so darn happy and tired), I am starting to think of having a baby just for 'happy' sake,lool. Lately it seems like everyone is giving birth,it is like , they are suddenly falling from the sky. There is Eduntey,Mary,Motun,Kofo and many more (it's crazy) they are so frequent that I think God have an already made batch(hehehehe). I always wonder who the next person would be*thinky "Wande you be next O!'' is always the response of my mumu padi when ever we talk baby. it is like our time has come to start pro creating or is almost here.
I am a lady so I am suppose to be ready but I am terrified of having a baby,the pains(chica is still gisting us), the stress(u wouldn't be able to sleep 6hours straight) plus they can be pretty annoying when they are grown. They say "Like poems, kids never make any sense and you have to pretend to understand them. But unlike poems they keep crapping themselves and expecting you to clean it up with a baby wipe". Comparing kids and poem sef,atleast you can scrap the poem,you can't put your child back in. But the mothers are always madly thrilled to have them.

You would think if I don't want kids I am probably lazy and I shouldn't have them abi
!. Apart from the lazy me dislike,the fact that you would get fat(ayama),loose your fabulous looks(not that I am saying I have one),constant body ache(rolls eye) . And it's not like there aren't enough kids out there, puking, screaming and doing that horrible thing where they get mucus smeared around their small nose. I have recently  become increasingly petrified that, when baby time comes ,there are only a few years left of real freedom to do all that important stuff like become the Ceo of that company, meet Drake and Rihanna, become a big time OAP(amen!!!)

But even with all the 'why I shouldn't have kids', I think my inner mind is doing 'yimu'. Because people tell me  "You just won't understand until you have one yourself." (Hmmm, probably true).
I guess sometimes there are forces bigger than what our minds tell us and it is useless arguing.At the end of the day we want to continue our bloodline and maybe push somebody to where we didn't get to. I would really never understand, at least not yet(maybe in 6-7yrs)..

All I know is that kids are adorable and they make everything worth it (atleast until they become teenagers)..

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