Roles Reversed?: Ladies in pants,Men in skirts

I have been away for a while now (act like you noticed),lets just say there have been no activity down here. Anyway, things are looking up..i got my close friend back so I am blooming (lool).
I hit blank for awhile but I have the best of friends ever so...

Recently all I see around me are lazy guys(don't hang me yet),don't know if I am looking in the wrong places or maybe I am seeing more of ambitious ladies( shit has to be intimidating for them at times too). Now I can't say I am in the right position to talk about the 'roles' of the man in a household (I am not my mom) but from the preconceived notion,what we understand is that a woman takes care of the home and a man is responsible for her comfort(okay!,so my key point is 'financial ',sue me!). Now I am not saying it is necessarily a stag rule when it comes to dating, I am not saying that we haven't evolved yet but that notion is still the foundation (I am right).
But a line in a Drake's track #Fancy
 "We go to dinner,you don't even look at me to pay"
has been taken for granted. Our skinny jeans boyfriends of nowadays have chosen to take the lady's role. They prefer to lean on their girlfriends instead of vice versa(i see their faces but I not gonna out them,lool), I am not saying it's not okay for a girl to support her man but it shouldn't be done on a regular basis(like seriously! ). If this occurs frequently, the natural order of things would be displaced. And what woman likes a weak man(i sure don't) ,a guy she feels or expects to say 'thank you' most times(flesh,bones and blood,we can't remain humble forever),eventually she loses respect for him (she isn't bad) ,shit happens and then they break up.

It's like girls are thinking far ahead of guys( ateast the ones I know). They are thinking CEO,skills acquisition, school owners,shop owners,footprints stuffs, etc.they are thinking Money! Owo!! Ego!.While some guys I know don't even know where they want to be in 5 to 10 yrs time(all they know is that,they want to be rich), they just sit in front of a system making sure their 'I love you dear' is right,their 'have you sent it my love?' is right (yea) so they can get easy money. I am not criticising,i swear I am not! (who am I to?!) but there is a quote "A market doesn't have just one entrance ",so instead of sitting on your idle asses, waiting for an easy transfer (that could take months) and not being able to help your girl when she needs you or beefing when she is advancing, what should you do?, you branch out (widen your net) or support her to the brim.let her know you aren't a leech, that you are 'trying'.
We fall in love with characters like Harvey Specter,Oliver Queen etc .. not just cause they are pretty (80percent *winks*) but because they can hold their own(they climbed up the ladder) ,they hold their own balls(well in my defence, Harvey owns signed basketballs;it sounded way less corny in my head) .No girl wants a man they can walk all over (I see why older men may be more attractive)
You guyz should be more Kind(balnced sort of kind),Firm(yes please! But not scary ) and ambitious!(datz the new sexy). The quote is "Behind every great man is a great woman" not the other way around.


That been said,shout outs to the girls that want to be self reliant,that aren't waiting by the phone to be taken out to lunch,that launch themselves where ever they want to go and don't really need him(but still wants him) but they are, at the same time still submissive.... Glasses Raised!!!
It is really the new age!