Friends Catalog


1) The Sister
This is the friend you grew up with. You guys probably went to the same primary school, kept malice with the same people(i remember that all too well),talked about your escapades in the toilet with the boy that you like(did that too!). You have been together for so long,your mom knows her and her family. You are even able to tell her 'the soup your mom cooked is not sweet today’, she respects a.k.a fears your dad, loves your mom ,adores you kid sister, teases your elder brother. She helps you sell at your shop without complaining. This are the type of friends that even if you don't see each other in a while it doesn't matter because when you do, it is like u guys haven’t been apart

2) The Divergent (I love that movie)
Friends that are so different from you, they are somewhat opposite of who you are. These can be in reference to their religion, their interests, culture, their perspectives etc, this friend is one of the most valuable friends in your life, they help you develop and ensure you views. They bring diversity to your world in a positive way (if they are good friends generally) – whether she's the calm to your chaotic, or optimist to your pessimist you would definitely learn from her. She is a breathe of fresh air.

3)The free Sharer/gossip:
 Maggie(carrie's diary),Sam(iCarly) and Samantha (Sex nd the city) sorta reminds me of this catergory,they are the friends that talk about anything to everything(sex,money,infectious diseases etc).they are really not shy in the least. They are the friends that sometimes you are really not sure about them meeting your other 'posh' friends because it could go either way.
she has a lot of other friends and she brings you their embarrassing tales(remember not to tell her  about your UTI). They are loud but at the end of the day you wish you were like them because their boldness opens door for them.

4) The straight shooter
This friends are very important in your life(like seriously!). We all like to have friends that would cuddle us  but when it comes down to the important stuff we need the S.S friends,when you have an issue she is the person you go meet for honest opinion and advice. They are always right on their assertions at least 90% of the time because they have probably been through that situation and they have a broad understanding of life. They are not there to lick your wounds or cuddle you. They are there to tell you what it is

5)   The’ I wish you were my boyfriend’ friend
Before we came along the debate of a girl and guy being just friends has been debatable. This is the friend that gets mistaken as your boyfriend. But guys are capable of setting aside small issues that we girls fuss about unnecessarily. So this friend sort of opens you eyes to mars aka the male species.
On a side note i think subconsciously we actually start to get a little too use to them and wish they were ours(- as charged)

Basically no one wants to be an island, friends are all that, but it is not about having too much it is about having the right ones...I love my friends madly and i hope they put me in the intelligent category (they had better, else i am defriending them niyen!)

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